So I had a great day yesterday! I haven’t had a day like that in a while. I started the day off having hot white chocolate with loads of whip cream and a warm blackberry scone. I browsed online and read some inspiring blogs. I like going to http://www.marcandangel.com/ whenever I need some encouragement. And sure enough, I was encouraged. I read inspiring messages about achieving your dreams and not settling for anything less. About how to be yourself and live simple and happy. I just love reading good messages like that because it reminds me how to live a happy and healthy life. I also helped a stranger, went to my doctor’s appointment and learned nothing serious was wrong with my neck that has been hurting more and more, and after the doctor’s appointment, I stopped by World Market and just explored all the things they have in there. It felt like an adventure. I brought some cool trinkets home: two turkish peach votive candles, hearts on a string from India, a cool journal with an elephant on the cover, a gift for my husband which was wall decor with his favorite bird on it and the artist signature was his name and the initial of his last name (this one was just too perfect!), and a book called Why Now Is The Time To Crush It! by Gary Vay Ner Chuk. Lastly, I stopped by the store and bought some goodies to snack on which included Grandma’s brand peanut butter cookies, which I love! When I got home, I burned the votive candles, turned all the lights off, and had my snacks and an early dinner. Oh and I also played some world music from India to set the mood. It was just such a cool day!
Although it doesn’t sound like I did anything really awesome, it was a really great day for me and I’m celebrating that because I haven’t been happy these past couple of weeks. I’m normally an energetic and happy person, but I guess my situation with my jobs and finding my purpose in life and doubting if I have one or if I will ever find my purpose was bringing me down. I guess how could it not bring anyone down. I was having such a good day that I wondered what changed it all. And then from somewhere, I forgot exactly where, probably my daily devotional book called Unto the Hills by Billy Graham, I read a quote from the bible that said something like “There may be weeping for a night, but shouts of joy come in the morning!” Oh boy did shouts of joy come in the morning. I think just the night before I was crying and asking God why my life was so boring and hard and not fun. You see, I recently became a Christian again and had some working on myself to do. I was super caught up in consuming everything and anything I wanted, got myself in money problems because of that, as well as a whole bunch of spiritual and moral problems. When I came back to the faith, I felt in my body that I had to change many of my habits. I went through sorta like a detox phase. I decided to become vegetarian, and then I fasted from many things that had become distractions rather than things that complemented my life. These things that I had to fast from were facebook, browsing online, checking email all the time, checking my phone all the time, watching tv, organizing my social networking group, people pleasing, snacks, appetizers, side dishes, desserts, buying the latest fashion trends, and buying anything and everything I wanted. It may sound like I was being a bit extreme, but believe me I had to because I had no self-control. I realized how much I became so dependent on these things because when I fasted from these things, I had such a difficult time. Because of that, I knew I had to take a break from these things to find myself.
When I took a break from these things, I heard my thoughts again and my heart. I felt like a huge burden was lifted off of my shoulders. I felt calm. I had so much free time. It gave me the opportunity to get back to myself and figure out what I needed and what I wanted to get out of my life. And indeed, I found myself again and am beginning to figure out what my purpose in life is. Yesterday was when I got back to allowing the things I fasted from back into my life. I was a bit scared because I didn’t want it to consume all my life again, but when I decided to start this blog, get back online, and have little healthy indulgences here and there, I felt a sense of peace about it. Prior to getting a better sense of myself and my life’s direction, whenever I wanted these things it was more to act as a block in my life than to add to my life. It was when I felt anxious, scared, or worried that I wanted to spend, go online, or eat beyond belief. I reached out for them in order to get away from myself than come back to myself. Yesterday when I allowed myself to have a good time, it was because I felt good and I wanted it to complement those good feelings. =)
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